It wouldn't be out of pity. It would be more of a "well, you know, I'm not sure but it's just one date and could turn out fun". Unless I really found her physically unattractive, then I wouldn't go on the date. Hmm well alright I get it. Welol if you ask her out out of pity. U will have to dump her and that will make you feel even worse, I would let her down slow when she asked. Nah since I'm usually making the move. One of the few benefits of making the move. Well dumping her later on will hurt her even more than the initial Be the first girl to share an opinion and earn 1 more Xper point!
Do you ever date girls out of pity or guilt? A lot of girls dig their own graves by agreeing to date with a guy because they don't want to hurt them with rejection. Do guys ever do this? What are the reasons that you usually ask out a girl or agree to go out with her? Because she's pretty, because she is compatible to you, because you feel sorry for her and don't want to hurt her, because you think it'll be fun or etc?
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I would and have gone on a date because I was bored and lonely and I would date for money too as long as it was clear it was a date she was paying for and not any other services! I don't really see much distinction between boredom and loneliness. If you are lonely you are probably bored also, and if you are bored it is probably because you are alone. I'm basically debating with myself right now whether to date someone out of boredom and loneliness.
The woman I want to date isn't interested and just wants to be friends. This other girl is into me and we have seen a few movies together but I haven't made any move on her. I am kind of attracted to her but not really. She is not bad looking, just not my type. She's one of my friends old girlfriends. Perhaps as the song says, if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with?
Date them not likely as it would not really give much of a foundation for a relationship.
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I did kiss a girl out of pity though no I didn't tell her that though. To be fair, a first date based on loneliness can sometimes result in her winning me over. Similar premise of would you rather be with someone you love but they don't love you, or someone who loves you but you don't love them. Again dating them is not likely as the relationship would not likely develop and go anywhere.
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I will admit that if I feeling particularly lonely and a girl I wasn't really interested in was there at the right time then I could see it happening. Assuming I find her at least mildly attractive, I'm not that difficult to win over. That to me would be a recipe for disaster. It would have to be a pretty substantial amount because it's almost the same as Pity.
I don't think so. Life has been a bit boring lately, so who knows! But I would have to be attracted to them. I don't know how people date someone who they aren't even attracted to.. I mean, it would be a plus if a girl was rich, but that wouldn't be my primary deciding factory whether or not I date the girl. I have dated a woman because I didn't want to be alone. It was a rebound relationship and turned out to be a bad relationship. Of course it didn't last long.
I would only date someone who I was attracted too. Its the only way I could date someone infact. I can not even imagine kissing, hugging and especially having sex with someone who I didn't find attractive. It grosses me out that people will actually do that. I would be wasting both of our time The longer I waste time with him the one he was meant to have is missing OUT on him.. Pity dating isn't a favor it's self serving..
Who am I to take "pity" on someone I will step aside and let the one that was meant have him while I go find mine. But I'd make it clear that it's just friendly so they don't expect more. Sure I feel lonely at times and wish I had a boyfriend. But this can only be remedied by a guy I really like. The company of someone who I'm not that into will not make me happy. So a big fat no. You never ever want to date some one because of money. My most recent ex was out of boredom and pity. He kept harassing me and then posted on fb about how he didn't think anyone could ever love him after I rejected him twice.
The third time I cracked and said yes to him. That would totally use him, and cause me hassle later when I have to break up with him. Break up is inevitable if you don't have any attraction to the person. You can do that with a car or maybe even a piece of clothing but human beings have emotions and it only confuses people further I'm not a gold digger! That's just mean on you're partner. I voted E, because I don't compromise.
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There are or there aren't feelings there AND I would never just date someone I didn't know before, so I already have to know his personality, his opinions, beliefs and stands. So whilst some say that feelings can develop over time, this isn't and has never been the case with me. I would pro make friends with them or try to help them depending on whether I could or nt: I've never used a guy before. And I don't know how other people do it.
If I'm not attracted to them in any way, then I'll let them know I just want to stay friends. Thing is in the end, you strangely enough will feel resentful torwards this person cause you'll have felt somewhat manipulated into being with them.
Don't do it cause in the end, everyone just gets hurt and you've wasted a part of your life that could be filled with a real honest relationship. Don't sell your self short, cause you will get what you want. Plus its not Kind, or loving.
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What goes around comes around, and you yourself know you woul'dnt want to be where that person is now with someone contemplating what you are now. Just be patient, and fill your life with friends and Laughter. Its always the best medicine for loneliness. You can do it ;. I need to feel some type of connection to him. I do think that they figure it out cause of the way I respond and thus they back off. I try my best not to be put in such a situation.
I will never waste my time with any guy unless I've feelings for him.